Jewelry has been part of human expression for centuries but a few stubborn myths still trip people up. From stone size to price tags, these misconceptions can steer buyers away from pieces that truly fit their lifestyle and story.
At Quantum Qarat, we hear these myths all the time from Phoenix and Scottsdale clients. Let’s clear the air and maybe even surprise you.
1. Lab-Grown Diamonds Aren’t “Real” Diamonds
Let’s start with the big one. Lab-grown diamonds are real diamonds. Same chemical structure. Same sparkle. Same durability on the Mohs scale. The only difference? One formed underground over billions of years; the other was grown in a lab in a matter of weeks.
Even the Gemological Institute of America (GIA) and IGI grade them by the same standards used for mined diamonds.
Why it matters in Phoenix: More couples are choosing lab-grown engagement rings for ethical sourcing and affordability without losing brilliance.
Want the full breakdown? Read our blog: The Rise of Lab-Grown Gemstones.
2. Bigger Is Always Better
Sure, a 3-carat diamond grabs attention but size doesn’t guarantee sparkle. A poorly cut 2-carat diamond can look dull next to a brilliant 1-carat with perfect proportions.
Sparkle lives in geometry, angles, and light return not just carat weight.
If you’re deciding between size and cut, we always recommend prioritizing the cut first. You’ll get more brilliance for your budget.
Dive deeper: How to Know What Stone Is for You.
3. Soft Stones Can’t Be Worn Daily
Opals, pearls, turquoise - yes, they’re softer than diamonds or sapphires. But does that mean they should stay locked away? Absolutely not.
With the right setting (think protective bezels) and a little TLC, softer stones can absolutely join your daily rotation. We’ve designed plenty of opal and pearl rings for Phoenix clients who wear them confidently-just not while gardening, lifting weights, or rock climbing at Camelback.
Want more durability insight? Check our Gemstone Hardness Guide from IGS, or see how different stones stack up in our own blog: Top Gemstones to Wear Daily in Phoenix.
4. Custom Jewelry Costs a Fortune
Another myth that keeps people from exploring custom design: the idea that “custom = expensive.”
The truth? Custom jewelry can fit a wide range of budgets. At Quantum Qarat, we use lab-grown diamonds, alternative gemstones, and even redesign existing heirlooms to keep costs fair. You’re not paying for brand markups or mass production-you’re investing in a one-of-a-kind piece designed around your story.
Curious about what custom really costs? Start with our blog: The Cost of Custom Jewelry in Phoenix.
5. Jewelry Is Just for “Special” Occasions
Jewelry isn’t only for weddings, galas, or anniversaries. It’s for the day-to-day-the little pieces that tell your story, ground you, or spark joy when you catch them in the mirror.
Think:
- A layered necklace with your kids’ birthstones.
- A gold stacking ring that reminds you of desert sunsets.
- Studs you never take off, even on hikes at South Mountain.
Pieces should fit your life-not wait for a black-tie invite.
For ideas, check out: 10 Jewelry Gifts for Every Milestone.
FAQs: Common Jewelry Myths
Q: Are lab-grown diamonds graded the same as mined diamonds?
Yes. Major labs, including GIA and IGI, use the same 4Cs framework. Learn more at GIA’s lab-grown resource and our overview, The Rise of Lab-Grown Gemstones.
Q: Does carat size matter more than cut?
Cut quality has the biggest impact on brightness and fire. If you’re balancing budget, prioritize cut first. Start here: How to Know What Stone Is for You.
Q: Can I wear softer stones (opal, pearl, turquoise) every day?
With protective settings and mindful wear, yes. Choose bezels or low-profile designs and follow basic care. See our picks in Top Gemstones to Wear Daily in Phoenix.
Q: Is custom jewelry always more expensive?
Not necessarily. Custom lets you control metal, stone type, and design to match your budget. Get a realistic range in The Cost of Custom Jewelry in Phoenix.
Q: Do I need an appraisal for new jewelry?
For insurance or resale, an appraisal is smart. Many insurers require one. If you’re just estimating value, consider a preliminary online evaluation first. Read: How to Get a Free Online Ring Appraisal.
Final Thoughts: Busting Myths, Building Meaning
Jewelry myths can cloud your judgment but when you know the truth, you can shop with clarity, confidence, and creativity. Whether you’re in Arcadia, Paradise Valley, or downtown Phoenix, your jewelry should be more than pretty it should be personal.
At Quantum Qarat, we design jewelry that’s ethical, transparent, and tailored to you. Swing by our Scottsdale studio or book a consultation online to start designing a piece that breaks myths and tells your story.